The Hate/ Heebes list

I was talking to a doctor friend the other day and this came out

"I hate nurses."

Whoa...HATE? Hate is a pretty strong word.

He goes on to explain he just doesn't like when they try to argue with him on final decisions. If someone gets sued in the end they go after the doctor, not the Nurse, PA, Nurse Practitioner, etc. The doctor should make the final decisions because of various reasons but also because in the end they are ultimately liable.

Understandable.

It made me thing about the word hate. I remembered an instance on my mission when we were laughing about things we hated as we walked through the streets on a rainy down poor day with no one to teach in sight. "I hate when it rains all day on you and no one let's you in for 10 hours." "I hate when your feet and hair have been wet for 10 hours and you know you'll get sick from it." Just saying it out loud got us laughing about it. The next time we were on the micro (jammed packed crammed bus with no room to breath), we made an "I hate list". I prefer to say a Heebes list (basically anything that gives you the heebie jeebies). I decided I don't love the word hate. Too harsh. Plus if you can get it out there and laugh about it, it becomes something not worth hating but a way to get a good laugh and appreciate all the good. Feel free to relate and add to it.

"Things we hate"

1. Bad service (Hair in your food or other weird things, slowest servers ever, empty drinks for ten years)
2. When a good meal or dessert is over
3. Awkward door scenes
4. Unpacking
5. The feeling after being on a plane (greasy)
6. Sick people coughing or sneezing on you (or your baby for that matter)
7. TRAFFIC
8 Fighting sleep!
9. Throwing up
10. Eating out too many times in a row.
11. Waking up 10 min before your alarm goes off and you are SO TIRED! You think it's 3 am. Nope, time to get up.
12. Cramps
13. Guys talking about other girls forever in front of you "Man she's so hot!" Good one.
14. Weird stomach problems
15. Computer problems at 3 am when a paper is due. You realize it's lost and you have to write it again.
16. Being pale white
17. Smooshy bad apples when you are so hungry and excited to eat it
18. Public bathrooms with out toilet paper and no flushing. Aka Dubai bathroom where Alana just stood there out side saying "Stressed!" (see above)
19. Throwing something away because you'll "never need it again" and then you do the next day
20. Guys trying to prove how cool they are (aren't)
21. Pimples on important days
22. The never ending date (Now we're going bowling, now a movie, now sledding, how about dessert?)
23. Tacky people. "Wow, you've gotten so much fatter since you've been here" (Chile or other South American countries). People here can have their share too. "Why aren't you married? Are you ever going to get married?" I feel like saying "Why aren't you out of debt yet? Are you ever going to loose that weight?" Totally joking...kinda :)
24. Ordering at a restaurant and the other persons meal is way better than yours.
25. Being cold and body wet. Freezing wind.
26. Being bloated
27. People who talk about how skinny/fat they are. "I'm just so skinny!" Good one. Unless it's a joke. "Too fat" Always acceptable.
28. Getting your hopes up.
29. Getting no sleep.
30. Going too long without seeing or talking to your best friends!! :)

I hope this doesn't come across as a downer. I think it is liberating to recognize and laugh at all the heeeebes things in life. I will follow up this post with an "I love list" but for now feel free to embrace the bad to know and love the good!!

Aaahhhh....Hawaii

It's a DREAMMM!!!

Aloha....from the islands

Starting 2011 off right

There are things that a few friends and I call 'perfect moments'. It's a time and place when everything is just right or even way more than you could ever imagine. This can be a something so simple like feeling the sun on your face to singing in the car to watching a new baby sleep.

This was a perfect moment for me.

2011 has been able to be packed with perfect moments as I have been discovering the big island of Hawaii. It is SO different here compared to the rest of the islands.

Tons of black lava rocks mixed with white lava rocks
So many beaches lined with palm trees

Lots of tropical fish

Sea turtles everywhere

Some really great company!

May all of our lives be packed with perfect moments this year of 2011!

Christmas loves

I feel a little bah humbug-ish because I haven't updated for so long during this beautiful Christmas season. You all know how it goes. I think of something to write, forget to take pictures, don't end up writing, take a nap instead, etc :) Well, here are a few things I have LOVED about this Christmas time.
I loved my dad's birthday and the fact that he would always quote the Pearl Harbor speech which eventually got me an A in History class. "Yesterday December the 7th..a day that will live in infamy!" (His birthday is Dec 7). We ate at the Garden which had great views and beautiful Christmas decorations. The food was pretty good too. In the past I had never been very impressed.
I LOVED the annual BFF Christmas party! We had Sarah's baby shower right before. I love my girls!!!
I love that my parents will be home for Christmas. They have been helping out all over the world doing neonatal resuscitation training. They just got back from Guyana.
I love that my dad and Rob are in Peru right now doing humanitarian work. My dad is de-worming all the kids and Rob is planting banana trees and building school desks.

Ro: "Heid, you don't have to worry about giving me a present. For my present I want you to donate a banana tree or a desk."

He was so sweet. He was all excited and went around the neighborhood seeing if anyone would want to help out. Him and my dad are now living in a tent with no electricity in the middle of the jungle helping the people of Peru. LOVE this.

I love that I got to hang with 2 of my favorite people in the world in our beloved city of Boston! Or is it Russia? That sure was a coveted Russian hat that night Ang!!
I love that we got to hear the beautiful Choir's Christmas Program and David Archuleta sing. He was absolutely breathtaking!!

Merry Christmas to all and to all a good night!

Norman's cousins

You've made it in life

I feel like I SHOULD be blogging about how much snow we got yesterday and how Alana's car looked like it had been sitting outside buried for a month this morning.

Or I should be blogging about how my nephew Chase is now taller that me and Hillary can now out drive me...congrats!! :)
Or I should be blogging about how we spent Thanksgiving in New Hampshire with the family and it was a blast!
BUT all I want to blog about today is going to work in your sweats!! It's the smartest plan. I don't know what got into me but one day I thought if I tucked my nighttime wear into my boots I could pull it off. I wore a cute jacket/ sweater thing on top and I got like 3 compliments at work on how cute I looked. Sweet! It seemed that the jacket totally overcompensated the sweats! That day probably shouldn't have happened because I've found myself wearing sweats at least once a week these days. It's just so nice on those cold snowy days... coz to the max!
Mergs saw me one day in my new attire and laughed and said "I say if you can wear those around in public for the day then you know that you have made it in life!"

Ha ha. Yep:) Ok...next post I'll get to NH and Boston time. Hope you all had a wonderful Thanksgiving!!

Saddle up!

"Saddle up!" is what Kelsey said to me as I walked into Texas Roadhouse for my BFF birthday dinner.

I replied "What?"

Kelsey "Oh nothing."

In the middle of our dinner the waiters proceeded to bring out a big saddle and called me up to go sit on it. She asked me "How old do you want to be tonight?"

I replied "Uh...21!"

Roadhouse waitress "Heidi is saddling up and celebrating her 21st birthday tonight."

I smiled and got on the thing. However, her kindness didn't stop us from listening to some other guy down the way announce it was his 25th birthday and our whole table was like "Oh riiight! Oh suuure! Like he is 25!" Come on us, give him a break ;)

The other night a few of us were talking about blogs and reading blogs and we read one of Alana's best friend's blog. Her honesty about the goods, bads, funny things, messy things in her life was quite refreshing. She encouraged us all to be more real.

So I'll go ahead and tell you the funny AND real thing about this night. See those glasses on my head? They were magic to me that night. It was just a rough day. We all have them. Every time I would start crying I would pull the glasses down over my eyes. Then I'd feel better. Glasses went back up on my head. Sad. Back down again. My friends then noticed that the glasses pulling down randomly coincided with whenever the server would come to our table. I'm sure she was thinking "What is going on with this girl who thinks she is nothing but Hollywood and HAS to wear her glasses inside."

Kelsey text me the other day "How's it going today? Glasses on? Glasses off? Glasses on? Glasses off?

Thank you. That made my day :)

I'll keep workin' on keeping those glasses off!